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but whatever, it was an interesting and funny incident.
I dont think anyone's really blameless. Adam laid it down pretty objectively, but I would like to add from the promoter's standpoint that everyone was pretty hyped up. Eli got loud, didnt enjoy the way they were chastised (some have labelled the bartender's actions unprofessional) and a rumble erupted. From what I could make out in my booth while I huddled down, one party would push (doesnt matter who) and the other would return fire.
The show didnt go as well as I could've hoped (especially for what couldve been a Speakeasy - Eli relationship), but it doesnt mean what happened on one night is going to permanently reflect anything about Speakeasy as a venue or ELI as a band.
In fact, it's probably helped both sides realize what works and what doesnt for shit they need to happen musicly.
You'll notice the title contains "Lema Sabacthani?", a biblical reference that translates as "Why have you forsaken me?", which I thought was appropriate to turn Devil's Night on its head and to show that in some ways, I felt forsaken by Eli's actions; I wanted to fight for them, but with time, I found myself struggling to be sure that they were really in the right. So, I turned it over to the audience rather than casting aspersions myself. I'm still a huge Eli fan because I loved their music, and they were nothing short of nice to me when I spoke with them after the incident. I'm also still a huge Speakeasy fan because George has done bham.fm a real solid by hosting our shenanigans (not to mention inviting me out for some free keg and shot parties), and that same bartender who dropped the ball of courtesy with Eli was overly courteous to me as I was leaving the show. I only hope the relationships can be patched over and everyone will move on. Venues of the past have died due to apathy and attitude problems, and while I don't see any end in sight for Speakeasy, I do think it's dangerous to let our show's events serve as reasons to sever from the bar or the band.
Summary: Shit happens, people make mistakes, we all try to learn, and we move on together or we all go down together. Let's all remember to swallow our pride with a slice of humble pie every once in a while.